As a man, you have the will power to achieve what you desire in life. You also have the ability to impact the lives of others. What’s more, you should make your success felt by women. And to do this, you don’t need fancy clothes or pick up lines. You just need to be who you really are and play your role as a man.
Here are useful tips for being a better man:
Learn to Identify Social Status
Know your social status and that of other people. For instance, a high status person will most likely be distracted when talking to you. On the other hand, a lower status person will give you their attention 100% during a conversation. When you know to identify other people’s social status, connecting with them becomes easier. You also know how to behave when communicating to high status people to ensure that they don’t blow you off.
Identify Self-Deception Habits
If there are painful things in your life, you may not want to accept or face them. But, becoming a better man means being an expert in self-deception habits. So, if you notice that you are deceiving yourself, seize the moment and work on it. Always do this to enhance personal development.
Learn and Practice
To know how to do something or whether something works, study and do it. Somebody may tell you that they have tried out something and proven that it doesn’t work. Well, they might have studied it in a wrong way or made an error when doing it. So, whether it’s a concept or idea, study it and execute it.
Improve Yourself Constantly
Focus on improving what you do. Aim at making yourself a better person today than you were yesterday. People that work towards improving themselves are the most successful both in life and with women. So, do away with the notion that a day will come when you will “arrive” and be that perfect person you desire. Instead, be open-minded and focus on never-ending improvement and growth.
Don’t Focus on Your Weaknesses
To identify your issues or weaknesses faster, come up with a list of the characteristics that you admire in other people and another list of the characteristics that you hate in other people. You will realize that the characteristics that you hate in other people are the same traits that you hate about yourself. And the characteristics that you admire in other people are the ones you are not focusing on developing in you. Therefore, focus on developing admirable characteristics and you will become a better man.
Avoid Bad Habits
This is not easy but it’s possible. The most important approach is to ensure that bad habits do not take root in you in the first place. Also start forming good habits and you will notice an improvement in life.
Learn to Control Yourself
When you feel like you are losing control, stop whatever you are doing and relax. Take time to reflect and take some space. Meditate and do something that will distract you. This is very important because you won’t attract women or enjoy a fulfilling life if you can’t control yourself.
Basically, there are many ways via which you can become a better man. Follow these tips to improve your personality and enhance your chances of being successful in life.